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Truth Be Told

We recommend telling donor-conceived people the truth about their conception very early on (pre-verbal) so that there is never a traumatic “telling” or “finding out” event.  When your child understands how they were created right from the beginning, it just … Continue reading

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Parent: A Noun and a Verb

Guest Blog: by Former Egg Donor Marilyn Drake   Parent is a noun- biological mother or father, which is what a donor literally is. Parent is also a verb- the act of caring for a child, taking responsibility, raising them. … Continue reading

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Connecting on the DSR vs. on DNA Websites

Ryan and I started the Donor Sibling Registry (DSR) in 2000, via Yahoo Groups, one of the the earliest social media-type applications.  Our group was based on the idea that Ryan’s donor had signed up for anonymity (and Ryan respected that … Continue reading

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Parent-On-A-Chain Jewelry: A heated discussion

There has been a recent (heated) conversation on the Donor Sibling Registry Facebook group page about the Parent-On-A-Chain Jewelry. When POAC founder Jennifer Moore first introduced the idea to me last summer, I liked it. I then ran the idea … Continue reading

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Dibling-Dumpling

Dibling Some of you love the word, and some of you detest it, so here’s my opinion about using accurate terminology, along with a few weigh-ins from several parents, a donor, and a few donor-conceived people. A hot topic of … Continue reading

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Sperm & Egg Donation: Telling is the First Step

In 2000 when my son and I started the Donor Sibling Registry (DSR) (initially as a Yahoo chat discussion group), the predominant conversation was about disclosure. Back then many, mostly straight, parents were invested in keeping the secret, and came … Continue reading

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Half Siblings from Sperm and Egg Donation

Three half sisters meet Family can be formed and defined in so many different ways, but biology has always been the most common family bond. If biology didn’t matter, we’d give birth to our babies, and then just pick any … Continue reading

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FINDING OUR PEOPLE: Wendy and Ryan Kramer’s Story by Ellen Glazer

As someone inveterately curious about people’s lives, I hit “pay dirt” recently. Not only did I get to hear a family story in some detail, but it was not “just any” family story. My “pay dirt” took me to a … Continue reading

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Telling Early, Very Early by Ellen S. Glazer, LICSW

When people come to me for “donor counseling,” I begin by asking them what would be helpful. Almost always, the response is the same, “We’re wondering what would be a good age to tell our future child about the donor?” … Continue reading

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Proud Storytellers- A Guest Blog Post from Ellen Glazer

“We cannot know who we really are until we know the stories of our lives.”                                     Daniel Mendelsohn in The Lost: The Search for Six of Six Million   “Do you think we really need to tell our child?” This … Continue reading

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