Donor Families

Make sure to report all births to your sperm bank!

Approximately 75% of all surveyed donor offspring would recommend that parents use a known or willing-to-be-known donor!



All DSR Media Videos are on the DSR Video Library Page (for members only).

Additional Videos


  • 2016: CBC: Many Canadian Donor Conceived Kids Turn to the Donor Sibling Registry to Connect With Half Siblings
  • "Website has helped connect 13K siblings, donorsNow the online resource boasts more than 51,000 members and claims to have helped unite more than 13,000 half-siblings and donors.  
  • Ryan and Wendy Kramer

    Wendy Kramer and her son Ryan started the Donor Sibling Registry after Ryan began asking questions about his origin. (Submitted)

    Kramer said the website has become an essential resource for children conceived through sperm donation around the world. The site is managed and operated with the help of membership fees.

    "For Canadians, I think it's really important to be on the Donor Sibling Registry, as that's the one point of contact," Kramer said. "U.S. sperm banks ... claim on their websites that they ship to 40, 50, 60 countries around the world."

    Kramer said she's tried to get government agencies to pay attention.

    "We've gone everywhere and asked for help. We've gone to senators, legislators, the National Institutes of Health. We've gone to the Surgeon General, U.S. Federal Drug Administration, everywhere. And nobody wants to help."

  • 2016 CBS Sunday Morning Show: Watch a donor connect with several donor children!
  • 2014 Watch the video webinar we did for the Family Equality Council! Wendy talks about the DSR, who we are and why we do what we do, and what we have learned over the years. Also, issues in regards to moving the industry forward in a more ethical and responsible manner, and how to create healthy and happy families.
  • 2013 An MTV six part series documenting the journey of Breeanna, a 17-year-old only child, connecting with many of the 15 half-siblings she met on the Donor Sibling Registry. Watch the DSR's Ryan Kramer walk Bree and half-brother Jesse through the steps to possibly locate their biological father.

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  • 2011 Documentary aired in Fall of 2011 on the Style Network: We worked very hard to make this a thoughtful and thought provoking show. We hope that viewers will be able to consider the perspectives of the offspring, the donors, the parents, the grandparents and the partners of the donors. We hope that people can understand why meeting a half-sister might be important to a donor conceived person. As we all redefine family on the DSR, it's important that those embarking on creating their family in this way, as well the industry, and the public, consider and ponder the issues about how families are redefined through using donor conception. This show was nominated for an Emmy in 2011. Click here to watch!
  • A mother's video: When my son met his first half-sibling

    Both boys inherited a potentially fatal aortic defect from their donor. This video is a photo montage of their meeting and subsequent photo shoot for a new article.

  • University of Manchester research project: What happens when donor agreements break down?

    Carol Smart from the University of Manchester informs viewers about her research on lesbians who have conceived using a known donor. She discusses the sociological and (British) legal factors that come into play.

  • TVNZ: Embryo donors warn of lack of rights

    A New Zealand couple donated their frozen embryo to another couple and have now been denied contact with the child.


Articles on disclosure and a child's right to know the truth about his/her conception

Wendy's Huffington Post Blog!


Experiences and voices of those in donor families

  • July 2016: Five half-siblings meet up with donor, Todd Whitehurst. He was a sperm donor while in graduate school at Stanford and now many of his kids are college-age themselves.

    "People who are ultimately desperate to go to sperm bank, want kids badly. They've gone through a lot of trouble, a lot of effort, a lot of paper work and expense, and you know they are going love those kids and take care of them. And I thought, 'why wouldn't I want to help families like that'," said donor Whitehurst.


  • My brother Jason and I have the same donor and were born 8 months apart. He found my DSR profile on New Year's Day of 2014, and we met each other in person shortly after. We felt an instant connection, and feel so lucky to have found each other. This picture is from my wedding in September 2015. You can see how close we've become! All thanks to you and the DSR :)
  • I'm 43 and I just found out that I am donor conceived this past year. My sister is 42. This picture is from when we got to meet this past September.
  • 2014 Kansas City Star: Donor 11 Gave me my son and changed my life (written by a DSR mom).

    Excerpt: That was the day I learned about the Donor Sibling Registry (DSR), an online resource for donor offspring, parents of donor offspring and donors themselves. As soon as I finished reading the article, I walked toward my computer. Eddie was outside shoveling snow.

    One tentative click, and I was on the site. I entered the name of the sperm bank and the number of our donor. Part of me hoped Number 11 had also read the article, had walked over to his computer, taken a great, trembling breath and revealed who he was.

    “Happy Mother” had apparently just put down her copy of the New York Times and added Number 11 to the registry, sharing a donor profile that was identical to the one we had. She noted that her donor-conceived son was 12 years old, and she was looking for possible half-siblings.

    I could hear the scraping of Eddie’s shovel on the sidewalk. I could hear a song by Phish drifting from Max’s bedroom. I tried to keep my hands from shaking as I began to type. Hello! I am Photo Mom.

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  • My daughter Kiana was was conceived with a donor. I have always told her about why she doesn't have a dad, as she noticed at around 3 that other kids had dads and she didn't. I explained that her dad was a special man who loved her, along way away in America (she thinks that's cool), and that she was made with "magical baby stuff" that got mixed with mummy's eggs to make her. She knows that 2 embryos were implanted and she was the result.
  • 2015 Visiting with DSR family in San Francisco: Sophia, her grandma Connie, and us! Sophia, her grandma Connie and us!
  • 2016 Mom Lynnette and her two sons, and a picture of her sons with their half sister and the donor's picture - at the same age!
  • 2013 The Hairpin: Interview with a Woman Who Had Two Kids by Anonymous Sperm Donor

    Excerpt: "There's a thing called the Donor Sibling Registry, and you can register with your code and share notes and ask things like 'Anyone else suffering from hay fever?' Luckily, most of the other donor families are in the US—all except for one family, who I literally bumped into at the supermarket down the street from my house." "That's nuts. How'd you recognize them?" "You can put pictures on the website. But yeah, I'm 20 yards from my front door at Waitrose, and this woman comes up to me and says, 'Are you Maggie?' It turned out that she lived two blocks down from me, and at one point her child was scheduled to go to the same school as mine, in the same class even..."

  • 2013 Dame Magazine: When a Sperm Donor Seeks out his Kids Donor Mike's DSR Connections including amazing portraits that he's created of his donor-kids.
  • 2013 Daily Mail: Middle-class motherhood in crisis The single career women who wish their donor babies had fathers
  • 2013 Dame Magazine: Eleni Mandell and the New Family One sperm donor, two grandparents, two toddlers and an ex-boyfriend/nanny/uncle. How one single mother redefined “family.”
  • 2013 Yahoo Video and Mail Online: Sperm donor mum tracks down her son’s ‘global family.’
  • Donor Siblings, A New Kind of Family

    A narrative in the NY Times about the process of defining family, when donor-conception is involved.

  • Voices of the Donor Conceived, Donors and Parents

    A compilation of writings and quotes from parents, donors, and donor-conceived adults.

  • John's Story

    A 53-year-old donor-conceived man tells his story.

  • Paul's Story

    Paul gives an eloquent and heartwarming perspective from a former donor.

  • David's Story

    David tells about connecting with a donor-daughter.

  • AFA Newsletter: Ryan and Anna, Two Half Siblings Meet

    Wendy recounts Ryan’s (DSR Co-Founder) experience meeting Anna, his half-sibling.



  • Anonymity, Disclosure and Contact with Donors: How Experiences of Donor Conceived Offspring Vary by Family Type

    The DSR conducted the largest survey to date on donor-offspring. We presented this research as a poster to the The American Society of Reproductive Medicine in 2010, and as a talk to The British and Irish Fertility Societies in 2011. This research was also published in the journal Human Reproduction in 2011.

See our Research page for the link many more published articles.